A man will not value what he hasn't worked for. I've been telling ladies that a man will NOT commit unless he falls in love. This is just putrid dating drama at it's worst. It doesn't matter what these ratings generated drama ramas tell you.

Men need to go through a process where THEY do the work to get the woman NOT women cat fighting over them.

Men love women who are interested but NOT desperate. It is very difficult for your man or any man you are dating to finding you intoxicating if you're NOT giving him the challenge he needs to increase his emotional attachment to you. Why the Bachelor Does Not Work OK...today's my day to rant about the ridiculous, debasing but highly rated female show, "The Bachelor"...how ma do we have to watch women throw themselves at some guy, get into cat fights with each other, only to have him dump her AFTER proposing marriage on public TV. It's not the way you should behave in your love life and as you can see from the last two disappointing episodes, men rarely FALL in love that quick. Any hint of jumping up and down just because.

If you've been doing life like the ladies on the bachelor, now you know why they get dumped.