Taking it slowly, one step at a time. A light dinner is advised or perhaps just having a light dessert. Maybe it's the thrill of becoming part of the Thorpe High Club or the adrenaline rush of having sex in a public place.

Then, the best way is to start by having a romantic candle-lit dinner. Gently towel each other off and go to your favorite lovemaking. When finished, head off to a warm shower together, soaping and scrubbing one another. But nothing beats having a long and romantic sexual evening together with your loved one.

Choose an evening when you will be undisturbed and do not have anything important scheduled for the next morning.

Or opening up the 'fridge and doing your best Nine and 1/2 Weeks impression. Savoring every moment and every second of the sexual exploration process that the two of you will partake in. Surely there are an infinite number of places and ways to add that little extra spice to your lovemaking arena.

How to Last All Night There's all manner of places and ways to make love that lend themselves to being exciting and pleasurable.