It was not too long ago when a man would tell his wife or girlfriend that if she didn't want to have sex with him, it was a mental problem and she should look for a psychiatrist. If the woman has gone through a recent pregnancy, she may have had to refrain from sex because it was causing her too much pain. If the woman is between the ages of 40 and 60, it could well be a lack of interest due to menopause and the ups and downs of mood swings. Of course if the problem is because of past abuse as a child or perhaps the woman has a low self esteem or she may feel unattractive, then this is a separate issue and a professional should be called upon to help. A majority of the time the issue centers around a physical issue and more likely a hormonal issue. Of course a woman may not have a mental problem but men are not that easy to reason with when dealing with the more emotional species of the woman.

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