A man's sexual arousal can be very flattering and women often enjoy the compliment. Women's Sexual Desire Women who live alone or do not have an active sex life with their partner sometimes perceive themselves to be sexually needy because they start to doubt their ability to attract men. As they grow older men worry about impotence; women worry about losing their ability to attract men.

Given that she made no mention of a lover, I found it difficult to see that she had any outlet for her sexuality. What a surprise!"admits Sallee Chick in her article 'The. Pauli (early fifties, children, relationship 30 years) was confident that she was highly sexual and interested in sex. "Married women are facing more sexual problems than single girls, with problems ranging from a lack of interest in sex to failure to reach orgasm. When Nanni described herself as sexy, it was in terms of looking attractive, being young-at-heart and being physically active at her local tennis club with like-minded women. However, her sexual relationship with her partner had broken down and she admitted that she did not consider female masturbation remotely interesting.

Women tend to define their sexuality in terms of their emotional sense of well-being and their attractiveness rather than by the existence of any kind of sex life.